I can burn the pictures, but not the poems / since I published them in books, which are on shelves / in libraries and in people's homes.
Denise Duhamel "Old Love Poems" from Issue 11
Denise Duhamel is the author, most recently, of Ka-Ching! (University of Pittsburgh Press, 2009), Two and Two (Pittsburgh, 2005), Mille et un Sentiments (Firewheel, 2005) and Queen for a Day: Selected and New Poems (Pittsburgh, 2001). She is a professor at Florida International University in Miami.
Old Love Poems
I can burn the pictures, but not the poems
since I published them in books, which are on shelves
in libraries and in peopleís homes. Once my cousin told me
not to write anything down because the words would be there forever
to remind me of the fool I once was. My cousin
was the little dog on the Tarot card, barking at the Foolís heels
as I headed right toward the cliff.
When James Taylor and Carly Simon
broke up, I was shocked. Taylorís drug use or not,
couldnít they work it out? I was in college
and, though I didnít really believe in marriage,
I believed in them. How could they part
having written those love songs? And how could they go on
singing those love songs after the divorce?
But now, I know.
After time, when they reached for those notes,
there wasnít really a beloved there anymore,
just a strand of hair each left behind
on the otherís scarf or pillow, a cologne trigger that transcended
into something more real than they were,
the lovers themselves ephemeral muses.
Itís still hard
for me to accept the notion of love outliving the loversó
a notion so romantic, itís unromantic. Hard to accept
that those big lumps of affection
would find alternate places to stick,
that Simon and Taylor would be swept away and marry
others. That need is not so much a deficit
as an asset,
like a wallet that keeps manufacturing its own dollar bills
even after itís been robbed of everything.
Or to say it another way: the plant that will bloom
despite being uprooted. The new seedling that will pop up.
Itís hard to believe when you are down to your last penny,
when the soil is dry and rocky and full of weeds,
when your love
is freeze-dried into a metallic pouch and you are full of snarky rage.
You look back at a love poem you wrote and ask:
did I really feel this way? Even if you no longer remember tenderness,
even if the verse was simply artifice, your idea of love, a subspecies
you made up to tag and define that one poor sap, you read the poem
again, grateful, holding the words in your hands like a bunch of flowers.