Sara ‘Noodle’ Mosher, Ally                       
Sophomore - Philosophy

INVOLVEMENTS AT OU:
I’m a student worker at the LGBT center and I will soon be an Ethics Ambassador for classes in the University.

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO BE OUT or TO BE AN ALLY?
Supporting people who are struggling in society because of discrimination is always important. I’m ready and willing to do my part in making this a safe and friendly society.

WHY ARE YOU “PROUD”?  WHAT ARE YOU MOST “PROUD” OF?
Look at past liberations: liberation of Slaves, liberation of Women, and now liberation of Sexual Orientation – these are all positive steps towards a more accepting and supportive world. I’m proud to be part of a movement so important.

WHAT WAS THE MOST DIFFICULT PART OF COMING OUT?
Luckily I was raised in a very accepting, open family. I suppose I never had to “come out” – everyone who knows me knows how I feel about these issues and it’s been that way since I can remember. The only fight I’ve ever gotten in was in 5th grade when I punched a kid for calling my friend gay – and right before I punched him I said “Don’t use the word “gay” in a derogatory way!” Now I know how to express myself non-violently, but as far as coming out as an ally? I was born out.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO OTHERS WHO COME OUT?
As an ally, the important thing is to hold your ground around people who are discriminatory. Never be afraid to voice your opinion, but do so respectfully. Only being respectful will lead to deserving respect.

THOUGHTS FOR NON-LGBT PEOPLE ABOUT LGBT PEOPLE AND CONCERNS:
This movement, like any other, has had its road blocks, and we’re not home-free yet. My goal is to have my children live in a place where the orientation of a person is ambiguous upon meeting that person. Let people define themselves; don’t define them for them.