Michaela Hahn-Lawson, Ally  Senior, Political Science Pre-Law
INVOLVEMENTS AT OU:
Off-Campus Life Commissioner of Student Senate, Director of Athens Beautification Day, Board of Directors for the Center for Student Legal Services, Student Trustee Selection Committee, University Standing Committee on Intercollegiate Athletics, 4-Year Member of Varsity Swimming and Diving Team and former 2-Year President of the Student Athlete Advisory Committee.
WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO BE AN ALLY?
Everyone is different whether their differences are based on sex, race, socio-economic reasons, or sexual preference. It is important to be an Ally to the LGBT community because as a group they are still widely and unfairly discriminated against in society. Being an Ally relieves people of the fear they may have of coming out. This fear often leads to depression and suicide, and it is an honor to aid those who feel they will not be accepted for something they cannot help.
WHY ARE YOU “PROUD”? WHAT ARE YOU MOST “PROUD” OF?
I am "Proud" because I know that everyone deserves fair and equal treatment, but above all, deserves to feel loved and understood. My "Pride" mostly comes from my Gay brother, Josh. We come from a very conservative "Red-Neck" family and he is by far the most successful, intelligent person to ever come out of it, despite having fears of being open and out. He is a mentor and above all an inspiration not only because he has accomplished so much, but because he has found happiness. My brother's marriage in November of 2006 to Mike Hathaway was one of the most emotional and beautiful experiences I have ever witnessed. My brother Josh and my new brother Mike are who I am most "Proud" of.
WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO OTHERS WHO COME OUT?
Overcome your fears and find a support system that will help you with the process. It is always good to start with your closest friends. If people love you, they will understand. And if they do not understand, don’t worry because you can find people who will and are willing to love you for the person you are.
THOUGHTS FOR NON-LGBT PEOPLE ABOUT LGBT PEOPLE AND CONCERNS:
Difference is inevitable. You can not change people for being who they are and for following their hearts, even when those choices may be something you cannot understand. Open your eyes and chose to accept. Acceptance is your only option, unless you are ok with being ignorant or hateful (not something that is easy to live with or something I would encourage). If you don’t understand something, ask questions. You may surprise yourself. My ex-boyfriend had never met or spoken to a Gay person prior to meeting my brother. He cried upon leaving their first encounter as it contradicted everything he had been taught growing up. It was a life-changing experience and one that more people should be open to having.
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